I was just diagnosed, went with my boyfriend to the doctor to get checked out.When the doctor left us alone he looked at me and said don't worry I still love you this changes nothing. But today he wont talk to me... he is beingreally distant. We don't know who had herpes first or where it came from, but its strangely shown up on both of us at the same time.

Could it be possible that one of us has had it for a long time and just never had an outbreak??